{"id":83698,"date":"2025-05-22T11:32:50","date_gmt":"2025-05-22T17:32:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mesonaz.org\/?p=83698"},"modified":"2025-05-22T11:32:50","modified_gmt":"2025-05-22T17:32:50","slug":"how-does-a-young-leader-earn-a-seat-at-the-table","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mesonaz.org\/en\/how-does-a-young-leader-earn-a-seat-at-the-table\/","title":{"rendered":"How Does a Young Leader Earn a Seat at the Table?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>By Dan Reiland &#8211;<\/p>\n<p>The next generation is the future of the church, especially our upcoming young leaders. The more we invest in developing young leaders, the greater the potential and future of the church.<\/p>\n<p>I love that young leaders have lots of questions. They are eager to learn and serve others. And like all of us, rise in competence, capacity and responsibility to make a difference in people\u2019s lives.<\/p>\n<p><em>One of the questions young leaders commonly ask is how to earn a spot at the esteemed \u201cleadership table\u201d where direction is set and decisions are made. How do you answer that question?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>A good place to start is with another question. Why does this desired seat seem to elude young leaders?Of course, some leaders rise quicker than others, but it\u2019s not always just about talent. In fact, some of the most gifted and capable leaders get stuck.<\/p>\n<p>Why do some talented young leaders not advance?<\/p>\n<p>If you are a young leader, rising in influence is not only about how good you are, its equally about how you demonstrate your influence and express your desires. It\u2019s about\u00a0<em>who<\/em>\u00a0you are and\u00a0<em>how<\/em>\u00a0you serve.<\/p>\n<p>That means,\u00a0<strong>in addition to<\/strong>\u00a0<strong>skill,<\/strong>\u00a0it\u2019s also about\u00a0<em><strong>self-awareness, attitude, passion, drive, humility and adaptability.<\/strong><\/em>\u00a0These attributes may seem more subjective, but truthfully, they are easy for others to see.<\/p>\n<p>In smaller churches there may be only one leadership table, in larger churches there will be many, but either way, there are always a finite number of seats. The encouraging truth is that there is never a shortage of opportunities to\u00a0<em>influence<\/em>\u00a0others toward their spiritual best and for the sake of God\u2019s Kingdom.<\/p>\n<p>Bottom line \u2014 You don\u2019t need a seat to\u00a0<em>start<\/em>\u00a0serving.<\/p>\n<p>I Timothy 3:1 says . . .\u00a0<em>Whoever aspires to be an overseer desires a noble task.<\/em>\u00a0(NIV)<\/p>\n<p>I love how The Message says it: \u201c<em>If anyone wants to provide leadership in the church, good!<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The rest of the passage, however, addresses the qualifications of the leader. Except for the ability to teach, none are skills! None are about pure competence and talent. The qualifications address character, reputation, demeanor, attitude, emotion, self-leadership, ego, sincerity and relationships.<\/p>\n<p>All that is about\u00a0<em>who\u00a0<\/em>you are which effects\u00a0<em>how<\/em>\u00a0you serve and lead.<\/p>\n<p>The real question is this. As a young leader are you willing to pay the price to qualify? If your answer is yes, are you still in if you learn that this cannot be accomplished in a short amount of time?<\/p>\n<p>Read this again\u2026 Young leader, it takes time to rise in your leadership. My advice to you is enjoy the process of growing as a leader. Enjoy leading, build what you have been entrusted with and over time you will be trusted with more.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Advice to young leaders:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>1. Do your best to select a healthy environment over the perfect job.<\/strong><br \/>\nLanding your dream job right out of school or a residency is a risky temptation. The environment you choose is more important that getting your perfect position on the team.<\/p>\n<p>In other words,\u00a0<em>choose the right team with the right culture, and the perfect job will find you.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>As a young leader, select a church environment that has:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>A clear and vibrant vision<\/strong>\u00a0\u2013 Is there a sense of direction and movement?<\/li>\n<li><strong>A healthy staff culture<\/strong>\u00a0\u2013 Are trust, honesty, and clear expectations evident?<\/li>\n<li><strong>A commitment to development<\/strong>\u00a0\u2013 Will they invest in your personal and leadership growth?<\/li>\n<li><strong>An authentic spirituality\u00a0\u2013\u00a0<\/strong>Is it obvious they love Jesus and focus on spiritual growth?<\/li>\n<li><strong>A sense of humor\u00a0\u2013\u00a0<\/strong>Do they have a lighthearted spirit, laugh easy and not take themselves too seriously?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>You can edit and add to this list. It\u2019s not meant to be the final comprehensive list, but it gets you started in the right direction.\u00a0<strong>NOTE:<\/strong>\u00a0I do recommend that you keep it short and to the essentials.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2. Focus your energy on being helpful more than being at the table.<\/strong><br \/>\nIf your heart\u2019s desire to serve and add value is greater than to be at a particular table with a certain position, your influence will rise, and in time larger leadership opportunities will present themselves. If not where you currently serve, someone somewhere will notice.<\/p>\n<p>There is always an opening, somewhere, for bright and capable young leaders \u2014 young leaders who are willing to learn, grow, work hard and add value rather than assume a seat at the table.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s important to remember that an official position or title is not required for significant influence. *Truly serving others brings an authentic spiritual authority all on its own. From there, when competence is combined with character and a good attitude, a place at the table will become available at the right time.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3. Demonstrate competence in the area you have been chosen to lead.<\/strong><br \/>\nFirst things first. Feel good about the fact that out of all the candidates, you were selected to be on the team!! Now make it your focus to genuinely care about people and excel at what you have been asked to do.<\/p>\n<p>Get really good at your current job before you seek the next position. Learn your craft, grow as a leader, and become the go-to person that everyone wants on their team.<\/p>\n<p>Your results should speak for themselves so loudly that you never have to call someone\u2019s attention to how hard you work. Let\u2019s be candid; effort isn\u2019t a leader\u2019s best attribute. Everyone believes they work hard; it\u2019s about what we accomplish that matters.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s better to find a good leadership coach in a healthy environment than to find a top job with a seat at the big table.<\/p>\n<p>A good coach will help you see things from a long-haul perspective. He or she will bring wisdom that will offer long term success over winning a quick reward.<\/p>\n<p><strong>4. Wait for an invitation rather than persuade your way in.<\/strong><br \/>\nIf you are a sharp young leader with aspirations of increasing influence and making a big difference, it\u2019s hard to wait. I truly understand. But to become good at your job, (as mentioned) it\u2019s also important to enjoy your job. I\u2019ve never met anyone who was really good, with a seat of influence somewhere in the organization, who dislikes their job. (Or is indifferent about their job.)<\/p>\n<p><em>Enjoying your job helps you wait for the invitation.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Waiting for an invitation to lead larger requires patience and maturity, but it also brings joy. Joy not only rewards you with inner satisfaction but is contagious and draws others toward you. In the end you receive what you dreamed about and without persistently coaxing your way in.<\/p>\n<p>Knowing your true gifts and talents takes time. Try different things, practice different skills. You short-circuit your future when you focus on rising quickly and gaining a seat at the table, rather than taking the time to learn where God has gifted you and what He wants you to do.<\/p>\n<p>I pray God\u2019s peace, guidance and blessing over you and your leadership journey.<\/p>\n<p>Copyright \u00a9 2024 Dan Reiland<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Dan Reiland &#8211; The next generation is the future of the church, especially our upcoming young leaders. The more we invest in developing young leaders, the greater the potential and future of the church. I love that young leaders have lots of questions. They are eager to learn and serve others. 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