{"id":78841,"date":"2023-09-27T10:14:24","date_gmt":"2023-09-27T16:14:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mesonaz.org\/?p=78841"},"modified":"2023-09-27T10:14:24","modified_gmt":"2023-09-27T16:14:24","slug":"7-practices-for-inclusion-of-young-leaders","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mesonaz.org\/en\/7-practices-for-inclusion-of-young-leaders\/","title":{"rendered":"7 Practices for Inclusion of Young Leaders"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>7 Practices for Inclusion of Young Leaders<\/strong><\/h2>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">By <a href=\"https:\/\/mesoamericaregion.us4.list-manage.com\/track\/click?u=03e55b045b4b2d81fc3a5a85b&amp;id=ee9a610366&amp;e=1e0613ef18\">Dan Reiland<\/a><\/h4>\n<p>Leadership has never been a spectator sport; we must get in the game from day one. When you\u2019ve invited a young leader onto your team, it\u2019s important that you\u2019re prepared to develop them, willing to give them the ball and let them go. How fast and far you let a young leader go depends on their skill level, experience, and growth rate as they are developed.<\/p>\n<p>However, my experience is that most young leaders are more capable and ready to go than their coaches perceive them to be.\u00a0<em>Young leaders are our future; let\u2019s help them lead!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>How can you know when a young leader is ready?<\/p>\n<p>One way to discern a young leader\u2019s readiness is through the process of inclusion. In short . . . Include them in the game! If we allow fear that a young leader might make a mistake, not do it as well as we can, or just flat drop the ball to be reasons not to include them, they\u2019ll never learn to lead.<\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t tell you how many times I made a mistake as a young leader, but my coaches kept putting me back in the game. Leaving a young leader on the sidelines does not help them become the leader they were meant to be.<\/p>\n<p>My mentors did have standards. While there were no penalties for mistakes, there were consequences for making the same mistake twice because that indicated I wasn\u2019t learning. Those consequences, however, were not imposed by those who led me; they were delivered by everyday life. My mentors were trying to help me grow!<\/p>\n<p><strong>7 practices for inclusion of young leaders<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>1) Inclusion starts with your beliefs, convictions, and security as a leader. \u00a0<\/strong><br \/>\nI\u2019ve never worked with a church that couldn\u2019t use a few more good leaders. If your programming outpaces your ability to lead it well, you can back yourself into a difficult corner, yet there is often very little attention given to a pathway to raise up more and better leaders.<\/p>\n<p>We agree on the need.<\/p>\n<p>So, where does this break down? Sometimes it\u2019s no more complicated than there is no process to find and develop leaders. But it often starts with things like:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>The connection between vision and leadership isn\u2019t clear<\/li>\n<li>Inability to trust and let go<\/li>\n<li>Failure to see the potential in young leaders<\/li>\n<li>Lack of empowering<\/li>\n<li>Protecting your emotional and organizational territory<\/li>\n<li>Perfectionistic tendencies<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Key questions:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Do you believe that without more and better leaders, you will not realize your vision?<\/li>\n<li>Are you willing to empower and let go?<\/li>\n<li>Can you personally identify one potential leader?<\/li>\n<li>Do you have a simple process for developing leaders?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><strong>2) Inclusion involves the combination of opportunities and training.<\/strong><br \/>\nIf we give a young leader opportunity without training, that isn\u2019t delegating; it\u2019s dumping. And training without opportunity is discouraging. Opportunity and training work best in partnership together. That\u2019s how a leader grows.<\/p>\n<p>I asked a small group apprentice leader how often she led the group. She said she never leads; she was just the leader\u2019s \u201chelper.\u201d That\u2019s a mistake. Observation is helpful but not enough by itself. If a person is genuinely apprenticing to lead, let them step up to the plate and take a swing!<\/p>\n<p>Your leadership opportunities (ministries) should not advance faster than your ability to train your leaders to lead them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3) Inclusion must embrace the weight and demands of responsibility.<\/strong><br \/>\nGiving a young leader real responsibility allows them to experience the weight of leadership. Can you imagine a drill sergeant running alongside a new recruit carrying his pack and weapon for him? Of course not; they have to carry the weight. If not, they are not prepared when they encounter the real pressure of battle.<\/p>\n<p>Training and support for your young leaders is vital, but don\u2019t attempt to protect them from taking a hit. Leadership doesn\u2019t happen from behind a computer screen; it\u2019s a contact sport. Let them feel it, or you hurt them in the long run.<\/p>\n<p>Know each leader well enough so you know just how much weight will stretch them but not hurt them. If you are unsure, keep your conversation with them open, honest, and current.<\/p>\n<p><strong>4) Inclusion never escapes the sacrifice of leadership.<\/strong><br \/>\nThe Church was born out of sacrifice. Jesus established that on the cross. Sacrifice is still required for growth. What do you give up? I really don\u2019t want to make a list. That\u2019s between you and God.<\/p>\n<p>The toughest thing about sacrificing for ministry is not giving something up; it\u2019s knowing where to draw the line. Legalism is you drawing lines for others. Bondage is others drawing lines for you. You and God have to work it out.<\/p>\n<p>When young leaders face difficult choices that arise from pressure in ministry, talk with them, coach and guide them, but let them decide.<\/p>\n<p><strong>5) Inclusion involves honest ongoing conversations, assessment, and feedback.<\/strong><br \/>\nI\u2019ll name one common sacrifice in ministry. Time. It\u2019s common to give up time for yourself to invest in others. It takes time to include young leaders. The good news is that most of us find that investment to be pure joy, and again, you draw your own healthy lines.<\/p>\n<p>Time is needed for ongoing conversations that honestly discuss the complexities of ministry leadership, assess their progress, and give helpful feedback.<\/p>\n<p><strong>6) Inclusion needs to demonstrate the power of partnership.<\/strong><br \/>\nIn John 17, often referred to as Jesus\u2019 High Priestly Prayer, He clearly emphasized unity.<br \/>\n<em>My prayer is not for them alone. I pray also for those who will believe in me through their message, that all of them may be one,\u00a0Father, just as you are in me and I am in you.\u00a0May they also be in us so that the world may believe that you have sent me. I have given them the glory that you gave me,\u00a0that they may be one as we are one\u2014\u00a0I in them and you in me\u2014so that they may be brought to complete unity. Then the world will know that you sent me\u00a0and have loved them\u00a0even as you have loved me.\u00a0\u00a0<\/em><br \/>\n<em>John 17:20-23<\/em><\/p>\n<p>We were created for community, designed for the operation of differing spiritual gifts together, and where one is weak, we find strength in the other.<\/p>\n<p>Partnerships can be in twos or in teams. Partnerships are powerful. If someone is discouraged, another lifts that person up. If one is under attack, the other prays. If one is lacking a gift or skill, another steps up.<\/p>\n<p>Invite a young leader into partnership, establish trust and healthy boundaries, and cast a vision for how you are better together!<\/p>\n<p><strong>7) Inclusion should always incorporate the joys, celebrations, and blessings of leadership.<\/strong><br \/>\n<em>Most leaders tend to over-celebrate or under-celebrate.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Parties are fun but not so productive, yet work without play is dull and can become drudgery. Teams don\u2019t function well without some lighthearted play and planned fun.<\/p>\n<p>I lean toward under-celebrate. I love to play; it\u2019s just not my first instinct. However, I\u2019m aware of it, so I intentionally create and embrace lighthearted moments.<\/p>\n<p>How about you? Which way do you lean?<\/p>\n<p>Young leaders need to experience the joys, blessings, and celebrations of wins in leadership. So make some time to thank God for the successes and have some fun!<\/p>\n<p>Copyright \u00a9 2022 Dan Reiland<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>7 Practices for Inclusion of Young Leaders By Dan Reiland Leadership has never been a spectator sport; we must get in the game from day one. When you\u2019ve invited a young leader onto your team, it\u2019s important that you\u2019re prepared to develop them, willing to give them the ball and let them go. 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