{"id":78792,"date":"2023-09-21T13:50:10","date_gmt":"2023-09-21T19:50:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mesonaz.org\/?p=78792"},"modified":"2023-09-21T13:50:10","modified_gmt":"2023-09-21T19:50:10","slug":"top-10-reasons-leaders-stop-leading-and-how-to-get-going-again","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mesonaz.org\/en\/top-10-reasons-leaders-stop-leading-and-how-to-get-going-again\/","title":{"rendered":"Top 10 Reasons Leaders Stop Leading: And How to Get Going Again"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Top 10 Reasons Leaders Stop Leading:<br \/>\n<\/strong><strong>And How to Get Going Again<\/strong><\/h2>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">By <a href=\"https:\/\/mesoamericaregion.us4.list-manage.com\/track\/click?u=03e55b045b4b2d81fc3a5a85b&amp;id=7097f24cee&amp;e=1e0613ef18\">Dan Reiland<\/a><\/h3>\n<p>Just because you have a leadership position doesn\u2019t mean you are leading. That\u2019s a sobering thought. All of us who carry the responsibility to lead must be honest about the question, \u201cAm I actually leading?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s so easy to be busy, work hard, even feel exhausted, and not actually be leading. In fact, in many cases a leader is working so hard and stays busy, they don\u2019t realize they are not leading.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Here are 12 quick tests to know you are leading:<\/strong><br \/>\n<em>(You don\u2019t do every one of these every day, but they are all part of your leadership life.)<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>If you are leading\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>You are out in front.<\/li>\n<li>You know where you are going.<\/li>\n<li>People are following you.<\/li>\n<li>You are bringing change.<\/li>\n<li>You are experiencing resistance.<\/li>\n<li>You are making decisions.<\/li>\n<li>You are making mistakes.<\/li>\n<li>You are making progress.<\/li>\n<li>You are taking risks.<\/li>\n<li>Not everyone likes you.<\/li>\n<li>You always need more resources.<\/li>\n<li>You are not afraid to measure results.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>How many did you check indicating \u201cyup that\u2019s me\u201d? What if you can\u2019t check \u201cyup, that\u2019s me\u201d on too many of these? What do you do if a leader on your team doesn\u2019t match this profile?<\/p>\n<p>The truth is that not every leader gets up every day and continues to lead. I\u2019ve watched this for decades now. Sometimes, and surprisingly often, a leader stops leading. It\u2019s not usually an abrupt thing and rarely a conscious decision, but slowly their leadership engine revs down to an idle.<\/p>\n<p>They still work hard, remain busy, and perhaps shepherd the people well. But there is no forward movement.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Top ten reasons leaders stop leading:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>1) The cumulative impact of complaints and criticism.<\/strong><br \/>\nIt\u2019s easier to pull back than keep taking the hits.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2) Years of work resulting in a soul-level tired.<\/strong><br \/>\nWe all get tired, but when it settles into the marrow, it\u2019s tough to keep going.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3) Attempting to do too much and do it alone.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>4) Fear of failure.<\/strong><br \/>\nPlaying it safe can make it seem like failure is avoidable.<\/p>\n<p><strong>5) Lost faith in your calling, and God\u2019s plan.<\/strong><br \/>\nWhen a leader is unclear about God\u2019s calling, presence, and plan, it\u2019s nearly impossible to lead.<\/p>\n<p><strong>6) No longer growing personally.<\/strong><br \/>\nNone of us can lead farther than we have personally traveled.<\/p>\n<p><strong>7) Personal struggles.<\/strong><br \/>\nWe all face difficulties from time to time, but continued personal struggles such as marriage, family or health can cause a leader to stop leading.<\/p>\n<p><strong>8) Unwilling to change.<\/strong><br \/>\nIt\u2019s impossible to lead the way and make progress to a preferable future without leading change.<\/p>\n<p><strong>9) Lack of clear and compelling vision.<\/strong><br \/>\nIt\u2019s difficult to move forward when the direction is unknown or has not been made clear.<\/p>\n<p><strong>10) The number one reason leaders stop leading is discouragement.<\/strong><br \/>\nDiscouragement is the cumulative result of any number of the nine reasons added together. I\u2019ve never seen a leader experience every reason on this list, in fact, just two or three can be enough ingredients at the right time to stop leading.<br \/>\nBeing aware of the reasons on this list is the first step to beating them before they beat you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The good news is that any leader can start leading again.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>How to Get Going Again!<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>1) Tend to your soul.<\/strong><br \/>\nYou may need rest or wise counsel, and undoubtedly consistent prayer. A soul check for spiritual and emotional restoration is essential. It may be as simple as a day alone with God to get you back on track. It may require wisdom and encouragement from a friend. It might, however, require a deeper and longer investment to get your heart back to where it needs to be. Don\u2019t hesitate to make the investment.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2) Restore your calling.<\/strong><br \/>\nDon\u2019t make any decision about God\u2019s call in your life until you\u2019re restored in spirit and have gained a healthy perspective on your thinking. Reflect on God\u2019s call. What did He say to you? Did that change? Do you believe there is more He\u2019s calling you to do? It\u2019s highly likely that God didn\u2019t change His mind, and still has meaningful ministry for you. Seeking His will in the matter of your leadership is essential. What does God want? What do you want?<\/p>\n<p><strong>3) Know who\u2019s with you.<\/strong><br \/>\nIt\u2019s normal and natural to want and need several close insiders that you can trust and partner with in ministry. If your church is small, start with one person, but pray and look for who is next! The group doesn\u2019t need to be large, and in fact, if it is, you are likely gathering friends and buddies rather than leaders.<\/p>\n<p><strong>4) Get out in front with one thing.<\/strong><br \/>\nIn order to lead you don\u2019t have to be an innovative wizard full of ground-breaking ideas. But you do need to be out in front of the pack in at least one progress-oriented endeavor in your church. It might be launching a new ministry. It might be a complete overhaul on an existing ministry. It might be cultivating a healthier staff culture. It could be a new idea in your worship service. Etc. The point is, what are you leading? What are you moving forward? What one vision-centered high priority, that if not for you, it wouldn\u2019t happen.<\/p>\n<p><strong>5) Aim for small wins to start.<\/strong><br \/>\nToo often leaders don\u2019t consider their efforts worthwhile unless it involves a grand and magnificent undertaking. Most real and solid progress is made one step at a time. Aim for a small win and get lots of them under your belt. The cumulative effect of small wins toward momentum is far better than a single herculean effort. When you lay it all on the line with one gigantic attempt without solid momentum behind you, that\u2019s not a wise way to start leading again.<br \/>\nIf you have stopped leading, or know someone who has, I pray this article is helpful to you.<\/p>\n<p>Copyright \u00a9 2023 Dan Reiland<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Top 10 Reasons Leaders Stop Leading: And How to Get Going Again By Dan Reiland Just because you have a leadership position doesn\u2019t mean you are leading. That\u2019s a sobering thought. 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